Well, it looks like someone may have been telling a very big lie. 'Hope' will not give the name of her 'friend' and was very offended when she was asked by the caseworker. I spoke to Owen's foster mom and she was a bit upset that I was so harsh with 'Hope'. It's obvious that 'Hope' called her after me and 'tattled' on me. Owen's foster mom was brought up to speed on why I feel the was I do. It's obvious that she has been kept out of the loop about many detail and now she is more informed she feels the same way I do. If 'Hope' is lying...things will change. I am thankful that my caseworker is not oblivious to what these bio parents can pull and I am able to be 100% honest with him about my feelings and concerns. Owen's foster mom made a good point. She said that we should all get together once a week so everyone is well informed on what's been going on. There are 2 caseworkers {Arizona & Lil' Man have one through the county and Owen has one through an agency} and 2 foster moms {Owen's and myself}. It is so easy for details to be lost in the cracks of communication. Not that I love a good fight or anything but I am ALL ABOUT accountability!!! I see things in black and white. There is NO grey. I am anxious to see how this plays out....